Showing posts with label Self-help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-help. Show all posts

Monday, August 15, 2011

Naisip dahil puyat

... Ako'y hamak na taga public school lamang.

wala akong talento, talino(ehem), sipag, o kagwapuhan....

pero mapapansin nyo naman na may pagkasinungaling ako. Joke.

Disregard nyo nalang yung "sinungaling" part.

basta...

pumasok ako sa isang pamantasang kilala dahil sa mga estudyate nitong mayayaman...

[So hulaan nyo nalang kung saan kung di nyo ko kilala... (UA&P, DLSU, ADMU, etc.... teka, lahat naman halos ng universities mamahalin ang tuition ha... IBABA ANG TUITION!!! Peace...)]

akala ko wala akong makakasundo sa kanila.

akala ko walang makakapansin sa kin...

-_- which is partly stupid when i think about it now.

Naalala ko lang na natuwa ako nung may isang taong di ko masyadong kaclose (galing sa ibang course) ang may alam ng pangalan ko, kahit never ko pa syang nakausap. -_-

Natatawa ako, ganun pala kababa social skill ko... nasisindak agad ako sa fact na taga dung school sila.

-_- oh well. ang natutunan ko sa buong stay ko sa univ na yun ay:

1) tao sila

2) tao din ako

3) tao interacts with tao

so... in short. kahit sino, kaya mong makausap. wag mong iisiping di mo sila kayang abutin.... :)


Saturday, July 9, 2011

Magexercise Tayo!

Araw-araw, sumasakay ako sa dyip.

Habang nakasakay ako, may nadevice ako ng way to stay healthy habang nakasakay sa jeep.

Gusto mo ba ng masel sa braso?

Wag nyo kong pipilosopohin na may masel talaga tayo sa braso...

Alam nyo naman ang ibig kong sabihin...

Kung gusto nyong magpalaki ng masel sa braso nang walang gym gym...

Subukan nyo tong teknik ko...

1) Pumara ng Dyip

2) Sumakay

3) Umupo sa gitnang parte ng dyip

4) Maging taga abot ng pamasahe ng ibang pasahero

5) Umusog papalapit sa drayber pag may sasakay, para iabot nila sayo yung bayad nila

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Yang steps na yan, ewan ko nalang kung hindi yan gumana.

Hindi lang matutuwa ang mga taong mahilig magpaabot ng bayad nila, lalakas pa katawan mo.

Pwede ka ding mag dagdag ng variety sa exercise na to.

Ex. Imbes na i-extend ang braso, lumapit sa drayber tsaka iabot, tapos bumalik uli sa original position. - DI BA PARA KA NA RING NAG JOGGING, yun nga lang kapit kang mabuti baka bumalentong ka. Oh ha, napapalakas din pala ang Grip mo.

Madaming simple exercises ang magagawa sa loob ng dyip.

Di lang lalakas ang pangangatawan mo, pati na rin ang pa... *ubo*giging taga abot *ubo* ...kikipagkapwa tao mo

Use it well...

May iba pa ba kayong exercise na ma isusuggest? :D Comment na :)

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Bakit nga ba ako idle?

Kasi, madaming gumugulo sa isip ko...

Sinanay ako na pumasok ng ala-sais at umuwi ng alas-syete...

Wala na akong reklamo tungkol doon...

Pero napapansin ko na ang ibang tao e may kayang gawin na hindi ko kayang gawin...

Ano iyon?

Tamang time management.

May iba pa silang nagagawa liban sa kanilang buhay buhay.

Kasi super busy nila at super toxic, nakakagawa sila ng paraan para gawin ang iba pang mga bagay.

Nakakapag-taka. Ano bang meron sila na wala ako?

Nakakatawa din. Kaya nila, pero ako hindi.

Hindi ako maglalagay ng tips dito kung paano mag manage ng time.

Di ko nga magawa e.. Let alone teaching you guys...

Pero pag nagawa kong magbago, siguradong tuturo ko teknik ko sa inyo...

Naway maging magaling kayong master ng oras nyo...

Tipong kahit 6-7 ang pasok, madame pa rin nagagawa...

Mas ok yun di ba?

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Life Hacks


Tinatamad ako magsulat ngayon...

Pero may isashare pa rin naman ako...

Credits sa gumawa ng pic na to...



Ayos ba?



Thursday, June 9, 2011

On Reviewing Old Test Paper

Madalas ka bang nagrereview gamit lamang ang mga luma mong test paper?

Umaasa ka lang ba sa mga luma mong test at mga test questionnaires na binibigay sa iyo pag nag rereview ka?

Ang masasabi ko lang, MAG-IINGAT KA.

Bakit?

Aminado ako na hindi ko nirereview ang mga "practice set", lumang test, at "sample questionnaires" na binibigay sa kin.

Dahil hindi din naman lalabas sa exam yung mga mismong tanong na nasa practice set, lumang tests at mga SQ.

Ang maipapayo ko lang, magbasa kayo.

Hindi maibibigay ng mga lumang exam nyo ang lahat ng impormasyon na pwede nilang hingin sa exam mo.

Liban nalang kung sinabi ng teacher mo na yun di lalabas sa exam, binago lang yung numbering.

Mahirap din kasing umasa lang sa impormasyon na galing sa mga dating test.

Dapat talaga, hanapin mo yung primary topics and read about it!

Ang purpose lang ng practice set ay

1) I-assess ang bilis mo sumagot.

2) Tignan kung nasa right shape ka para mag-exam.

3) Ipakita sayo ang mga topics na "pwedeng" lumabas (Pwede ding hindi lumabas yung topic na yun).

4) Ipakita sayo yung mga topic na pwedeng bumulaga sayo (Mga topic na wala sa practice set pero lalabas sa exam) dahil wala sila sa practice set...

In a nutshell,

"Wag umasa sa practice set, may libro (at notes), magbasa ka. Kung tamad ka, good luck."

Hope epektib tong tip na to. :D

Friday, March 18, 2011

Anong nangyari?

Matagal na walang post... Magdadahilan Busy... Pero Babawi ako today...

This is a Short Essay (Very short) for you Guys...

-A short essay-

To run away is what most people do when they are down, and they would try to hide to the problem and never try to solve it. I would say that we should face our problems. But that's not easy that's why its always not the case. Hiding is easy, but we must do it forever. Problems will never go away unless solved!

Solutions are not easy, but running is. But then, when you realize that you have ran so far because of running for so long. The one who was chasing you was still on your back. Trying to tail you, haunt you, show you that you can't escape, the truth, the truth, the problem. It exist and won't go away. You'll run miles, you'll hide in the deepest bowels of the earth, you'll climb the highest mountains but the problem will exist as long as you know it does.

Forgetting is bliss, just like ignorance, but even if you say you forgot it is there, it doesn't mean it is not there. But at least you won't have to think so much as the problem gets bigger and bigger and bigger as it approaches you just like a raging bull. Forgetting a problem is like being a blindfolded Matador during a fight.

WE MUST FACE THE PROBLEM IF YOU WANT TO RELAX. FIND A SOLUTION. IF THERE IS NO SOLUTION THEN THERE'S NO PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE. PROBLEM MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND (conservation of angular momentum yun di ba?) SO IF YOU WANT TO CONTROL THE WORLD, SHOW THE BULL WHO IS THE BOSS.

Naintindihan nyo? Ako kasi Hindi e... Sino ba nagsulat nyan?

Malay ko.. Nag popost lang ako dito

Friday, November 5, 2010

Insipiring Speech!

(Napulot ko lang po ito sa net... Kung may nakabasa na, alam kong napaisip kayo sa sinabi ng nagdeliver nito.)

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This speech was delivered by a La Sallian engineer in one of the graduation ceremonies at the UP College of Engineering.

Ngayong araw na ito, sa ating pagtatapos, mayroon akong dalang Transcript of Record. Ang estudyanteng may-ari ng transcript na ito ay nag-aral sa De La Salle University. Sa unibersidad na ito, kapag ikaw ay isang undergraduate, may ID number na nagsisimula sa “94” at pataas, kung lumipas ang isang buong schoolyear at umabot ka sa 15 units na bagsak, masisipa ka sa paaralan.Ang transcript na hawak ko ay mayroong 27 units ng bagsak. 12 sa mga ito ay tinamo ng estudyante sa iisang schoolyear lang. Ang isang subject ay kadalasang may bigat na 3 units. Kung iisiping mabuti, isang subject na bagsak na lang ay pwede na masipa ang estudyanteng may-ari ng transcript na ito.

Ang speech na ito ay hindi ko ginawa para i-acknowledge ang paghihirap ng ating magulang sa pagpapaaral natin. Hindi ko din ito ginawa para maghayag ng political statement, o kumbinsihin kayo na huwag umalis sa bansa at tulungan itong maka-ahon. Ang speech na ito ay para sa mga normal na estudyante na kagaya ng may may-ari ng transcript na hawak ko, dahil madalas, wala talagang paki-alam ang unibersidad sa mga achievements nila. May mga awards na gaya ng “Summa Cum Laude”, “Best Thesis Award” at “Leadership Award.” Pero ni minsan, hindi pa ako nakakakita ng unibersidad na nagbigay ng “Hung on and managed to graduate despite nearly getting kicked-out during his academic stay” award.

Maaaring isang malaking kagaguhan ang konseptong ito para sa karamihan. Bakit mo pararangalan ang isang estudyanteng bulakbol, ***, tamad o iresponsable? Hindi ba dapat isuka ito ng unibersidad? Ito yung mga tipo ng estudyanteng walang ia-asenso sa buhay, hindi ba?

Ayun. Natumbok niyo.Iyun na nga ang dahilan.

Madalas, pag ang isang estudyante ay may pangit na marka sa paaralan, lalong-lalo na sa kolehiyo, nakakapanghina ito ng loob. Nandiyan yung tatamarin ka mag-aral, nandyan yung iisipin mo “Ano pa kayang trabaho ang makukuha ko? Call center na naman o clerical? Ba’t kasi ang *** ko. Kung matalino lang ako, sana, sa Proctor and Gamble ako, o kung saang sikat na kumpanya.”

Mas mahirap ang dinadaanan ng mga estudyanteng bumabagsak. Kahit na sabihin mong kasalanan nilang bumabagsak sila, hindi ninyo alam kung ano ang pakiramdam ng ganun. Madaling sabihin na “Kaya mo yan, mag-aral ka lang,” pero alam ba natin talaga ang sinasabi natin?Kapag ang isang estudyante ay bumabagsak sa unibersidad, nandiyan yung tatawanan niya lang yan. O di kaya naman, ipagmamalaki niya pang “TAKE 5 NA KO!!!” o “Pare, magpi-PhD na ako sa Anmath3/Calculus/etc.” Pero hindi alam ng mga isang Summa Cum Laude kung ano ang nasa isip ng isang normal na estudyante sa tuwing matutulog ito at alam niyang pag-gising niya, kailangan niya na naming ulitin ang isang subject na nakuha niya na sa susunod na term.

Kahit kalian, hindi naging problema sa “Star Student” na sabihing “Nay, bagsak ako.” at hindi kailanman sumagi sa isip nila na “Paano kaya kung sa walang-pangalang kumpanya lang ako makapagtrabaho?” Dahil sigurado sila sa kinabukasan nila.

Huwag na tayong maglokohan. Grades are everything. Kahit bali-baligtarin mo iyan, hindi magiging patas ang mga kumpanyang kumukuha ng fresh graduates para magtrabaho sa kanila. Minsan din naman, nadadaan sa palakasan, pero ganun pa din. Kung hindi ka academically good, wala kang patutunguhan. Kung hindi man yun, mas mahirap yung dadaanan mo para lang makaa-abot sa prestihiyosong posisyon.

Kaya ngayong graduation, ang speech na ito ay inaaalay ko para sa mga estudyanteng lumpagpak, muntik-muntikanan nang masipa o yung lahat ng paraang pwede, ginawa na para lang makatapos. Gagawin kong patas ang mundo para sa inyo kahit isang araw lang. Kahit ano pa ang sabihin ng ibang tao, kesyo kasalanan mo man na pangit ang marka mo o muntik ka nang makick-out, saludo ako sa hindi mo pagtigil sa pag-aaral. Saludo ako na may lakas ka ng loob na harapin pa rin ang mundo kahit alam mong hindi ito magiging patas sa iyo. Saludo ako na kahit pangit ang transcript mo, taas-noo ka pa rin ngayong graduation at proud na proud sa sarili mo.

Ano ngayon ang mangyayari sa mga graduates pagkatapos nitong graduation? Ayoko nang puntahan yung pwedeng mangyayari sa mga Cum Laude. Baduy. Alam mo namang me patutunguhan ang buhay nila e. Pero dun sa mga lumagpak, ano ang meron?

Maaring makakuha kayo ng mediocre na trabaho lang. Pwede ka rin swertehin, baka makapagtrabaho ka sa magandang kumpanya. Madami pang pwedeng mangyari. Huwag kayong mawalan ng pag-asa. Kung nung college, nagtiyaga kayo e ba’t titigilan niyo yung pagti-tiyaga ngayon?

Pwede ring ganito: Mag-aral ka ulit. Ipakita mo sa kanila na kung sipagin ka lang, malayo ang mararating mo. Subukan mong patunayan sa kanila na kapag pinilit mo, kaya mo ring abutin yung naabot nila. Na hindi ka ***, kundi tinamad ka lang.

Baka sabihin ninyo, drowing lang ako.

I’ve been on both sides. Naranasan ko na ring lumagpak, at muntikan na din akong masipa. Naranasan ko na na umulit ng 4 na beses sa iisang subject. Naranasan ko na na masumbatan ng magulang, kapatid at kung sino-sino pang propesor na walang pakialam sa pakiramdam ng estuyante. Naranasan ko nang hindi makatulog ng maraming gabi sa pagiisip kung paano ko na naman sasabihin sa magulang ko na may bagsak na naman ako. Kaya alam ko ang pakiramdam ninyo.

Akin ang transcript na ito.

Pagkagraduate ko ng college, ano ang ginawa ko? Eto. Nagtrabaho muna ng konti, tapos aral ulit. Kuha ng Masteral sa kurso ko. Hindi para sa trabaho o kung ano man. Kundi para patunayan sa sarili ko na noong mga panahong bumabagsak ako, tinatamad lang ako.

This is a rebellion. I raise my middle finger to every professor, over-achiever, naysayer and detractor that told me that I can’t make it. I raise my middle finger to every valedictory or graduation speech that only gratifies the university, those who were achievers in school or those who gratify the country when it’s supposed to be the graduate’s moment of glory. You are supposed to acknowledge EVERYONE. Even those who failed many times.

Kaya sa inyong mga graduates na medyo hindi maganda ang marka, para sa inyo ito. Kung kinaya ko ito, kaya niyo rin to. Imposibleng hindi.

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P.S. Nice di ba?

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Most Girls Are Friendly At First

Why is that? Because she doesn’t know you well yet and she doesn’t know if she is attracted to you yet. Every woman has very specific set of values she is looking for a guy. If a girl is young, she could just want some attention from cute and popular guy, but as a woman gets older she understand more and more what she is looking for in partner.

If a girl doesn’t like you, it simply means she is not interested. She doesn’t hate you, she doesn’t dislike you either, she is just not interested. Sometimes guys, like me get upset and you think she doesn’t like you, but maybe she just likes you as her friend and not more. We all want to be liked as much as we like someone. So, how do you know if she doesn’t like you? I think the first sign is if she looses interest and doesn’t give you attention anymore. Some girls are very shy and if she likes you, she would give you short attention but it would be consistent. If the girl doesn’t like you, then she would give you less and less attention, and finally she wouldn’t give you any attention.

It can be hard to realize the girl you liked doesn’t like back. It can be devastating in some cases, I mean, “Damn!” But don’t get angry or mad at her for not liking you as much as you hoped. Women are very emotional beings and they don’t always can predict how they feel. The better you make her feel good the more she will come back for more. If you can’t make your woman like you, don’t get frustrated. There are other women in the world who are even better than she is. She isn’t as perfect as you hoped her to be. She has her own faults and maybe you just loved the fantasy of “perfect her” instead of a real her. It’s okay to grieve a lost hope but don’t think about it too much and go find some other women to have fun with.


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Nakakarelate ako dito sa nakasulat dito... >.< Hay...

Less and less attention then POOF wala na...

Salamat sa kung sino man ang nagsulat dito...

Thursday, July 2, 2009

How to stay young...

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctor worry about them. That is why you pay him/her.

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. " An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Words of wisdom: I've learned that ......

Words of wisdom: I've learned that ......

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. (Amen to that!)

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it

I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.

I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.

I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.

I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

-Author Unknown

:D mahaba, pero meaningful...